In fact a mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone.
A mature person has the integrity to be alone. And when a mature person gives love, he gives without any strings attached to it: he simply gives. And when a mature person gives love, he feels grateful that you have accepted his love, not vice versa. He does not expect you to be thankful for it – no, not at all, he does not even need your thanks. He thanks you for accepting his love. And when two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone; they are together so much so that they are almost one. But their oneness does not destroy their individuality, in fact, it enhances it: they become more individual.
Two mature persons in love help each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think over it. Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. That’s why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced – they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.
Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.
Osho (via psych-facts)
"Somebody Who Knows That Nobody Could Compare Because They’ve Already Found Someone Who Embodies All That They’ve Ever Wanted. Do You Know How Satisfying It Is To Have Somebody Who Actually Realizes Just How Good They Have It When They Have You?" Beyond Bliss I iMagine…
Jiggas Will Chase Other Things Just For That “New Feeling” (Or What Use To Be) Thing ALL The Time. Thinking They Missed Out. Which To Me Means That, NO-THING Or Nobody Is Ever Enough, For You. “Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness”- Osho My Sentiments EXACTLY 👌 So Be Free. Be With All Those You Want To Be With. Just Know I Ain’t The 1 To Play Dumb Long Enough Anymore, That It Kills Me Inside For Not Being True To Me, And What I Know To Be True. I’ve Accepted The Fact Of This Matter Long Ago. Not With The Baggage, On Top Of What Use To Be Baggage. Especially If You Don’t See It As A Hinderance To What You’re Trying To Do With Me. Not Gon’ Force You To See It Either *shrugs*… You Just Lost The ☝️.